Top 10 Signs He's Thinking About You When No Contact - FlirtSavvy (2023)

You know that horrible feeling you get right after a breakup?

It's that feeling of emptiness in your chest that lasts for days, weeks, even months...

All the time your head is full of thoughts...

"Are you thinking of me?"

"Does he miss me?"

"Did he go ahead and forget about me?"

Trust us, we understand.

Being "out of touch" after a breakup is one of the most frustrating things ever.

That's because you might be thinking about him all the time, but you have no idea if he's thinking about you too.

As relationship coaches, we've helped thousands of girls around the world deal with these feelings.

Here's the good news:

There are some specific ways to read a man's mind to find out if he's secretly thinking about you.

With the help of psychology, we can see exactly what is going on in the mind of a man without contact.

(Actually, you'd be pretty surprised by some of their thoughts...)

Top 10 Signs He's Thinking About You When You're Not Communicating

Today we're going to share with you the top 10 signs that he's secretly thinking about you when he's not dating.

Now you might be wondering:

"How do I know if I can't contact you or see you in person?"

This is where our team of experts comes into play.

Stay tuned on their social media in the coming days.

If you spot any of these signs, chances are it's on your mind.

You may also see this behavior in your friends - just check in with them and ask them how they are doing.

Be sure to read until the end: you will also learn a lotreverse psychology techniquesthis is going to make me miss you like crazy, andMake him ask you for a second chance.

1. He looks depressed

Everyone knows:

Guys like to hide their feelings.

However, some feelings are too strong to contain...

When a man is hurt by a breakup, two things can happen:

First, it's easy to tell that you're in pain.

On the other hand, you can try to pretend that everything is fine.

Still, it will be very obvious that he is just faking it.

So this is what you do:

Watch for signs of depression in your social media posts.

Some examples include sharing sad quotes and songs.

Other times, he might post pictures of himself having fun and trying to convince everyone that he's fine...

Either way, he's still hurt and he's definitely still thinking about you.

That's because it's impossible for him to separate the pain of a relationship from the thought of you.

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2. Change your appearance

Believe it or not, guys get pretty emotional during a breakup too.

You're probably lost in thought right now...

It's a stressful time and the first thing guys want to do isescape these feelings.

Many men will try to do this by changing their appearance.

For example, he might start growing a beard or changing his hairstyle.

This will temporarily ease your anguish...

But it's actually a sign that he's still thinking about you and can't get you out of his mind.

3. You make some lifestyle changes.

One of the first things a man will do is try to move on as quickly as possible.

Your first reaction to all your sad feelings is to try to get rid of them.

But think about it:

He wouldn't do it if it weren't forthink of you first.

Some common examples are going to the gym or starting a new hobby.

On social media, he'll try to make it look like he'd like to move on...

But you can be sure he thinks about you all the time., because it's the only reason you're doing these things.

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4. He's acting mysterious

As we mentioned before, guys suck at controlling their emotions.

This is especially true during a breakup.

Here's what you need to understand what goes on in a man's head without contact:

First, her heart hurts and she is emotionally unstable.

But in his head, he's trying to run away from those feelings.

This conflict between your heart and your mindbecomes unpredictable during this time.

Therefore, many guys will behave quite mysteriously.

Many men experience mood swings trying to hide the fact that they are hurt.

This is one of the biggest signs that he misses you when you're not in touch.

5. Your posts seem to be from you

Let's be honest:

A breakup is an awkward situation.

It's a big change to go from a close relationship to no contact.

This is what REALLY happens in the male mind when there is no contact:

If a guy thinks about you during this time, he will really feel conflicted.

For one thing, the no contact rule means he can't talk to you directly.

But deep down, he really wants to get to you.

This is when many people turn to social media and share songs and quotes.

Pay attention to their posts: the meaning of these posts is often vague and unclear...

But if you put it in the context of a breakup,it becomes obvious that he is really talking about you, and secretly wants you to see what he posts.

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6. Spend a lot of time online

As we mentioned above:

A man's first reaction to a breakup is to run away from his hurt feelings.

As painful as it is, he also wants to get rid of thoughts about the relationship he had with you.

Therefore, you will try to ease the pain by spending time online.

Watch how long you appear online, even if you don't post anything.

If you spend a lot of time online, that's a sign.tries to distract himself from the pain of separation.

It also means that he's clearly still hurt and thinks about you all the time.

7. He didn't date anyone else.

For guys, a big part of moving on from a breakup is seeing new girls...

But that's not possible when he still has you in his heart.

Here you have to be careful:

At that moment he also wonders if you are thinking about him.

He might try to make it look like he's completely changed and show off to the other girls he's dating...

But mostly it's just play.

The more he tries to look like he's flirting with other girls, the more likely it is that he's still thinking about you deep down.

NOTE: A guy might think of youeven if he is with another girl.

In fact, you can use your "emotional triggers" to make him completely forget about the new girl and ask for another chance.

(Check out our free guide to learn exactly how to do this!)

8. Follows you on social media

This is one of the strongest signs that he misses you after the breakup.

Put yourself in their shoes for a second:

He wants to see how you are doing after the breakup...

But he cannot contact you directly.

So what's the next best thing?

Go through your social networks!

There are a few ways to tell if he's done this:

First, on some platforms like Instagram, you can see if your stories have been viewed.

If they visited your profile frequently, the algorithm will place them at the top of your contact list.

In some cases, they might even like some of your posts.

Even if he doesn't contact you directly, these are all signs that he's still thinking about you.

9. He talks about you with his friends

This is one of the biggest differences between boys and girls:

You've probably already talked to some friends about your breakup...

But it's actually pretty common for guys NOT to talk about it with their friends.

Because they like to play it cool and bottle up their own feelings.

However, there are exceptions:

Getting a guy to open up is really hard, even in front of his friends...

But when a guy talks about you to his friends, you can be sure he misses you a lot.

This is a sign that your ex is definitely not over you.

In fact, it shows that his feelings for you are so strong that he can no longer hide them.

So if you're in touch with one of your friends, ask them if they're talking about you...

It really doesn't matter what he says about you. The most important thing is: you are in their thoughts.

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10. He reaches out to you

Finally, we have the strongest sign that he's still thinking about you:

Sometimes the boys will miss you a lot...

...that he can't do anything elsebreak the no contact rule.

When this happens he will usually approach you innocently and ask how you are doing.

But no matter what I say, this is the truth:

When he gets close to you, deep in his heart he wants you back.

How to Make Him Want You Back (Using Reverse Psychology)

By now, you should know if he's thinking about you during the no-contact conversation...

But be honest with yourself:

Do you think about him too?

Do you still have that empty feeling in your chest?

do you miss him too?

As dating coaches and relationship dynamics experts, we've helped hundreds of girls get their ex back...

... WITHOUT asking him to come back.

In fact, once you learn to use our techniques, HE will be the one who will chase you and beg you to get back together with him.

But before we show you how, here's a top secret about the impact of the social distancing rule on male psychology:

As we all know, children have a very short attention span.

At this point you know he misses you too and thinks about you all the time (even if he doesn't want to admit it).

However, as time passes, he will think less and less of you...

In fact, after a few weeks he will start to forget about you and all the happy moments you shared when you were in love.

And soon after that step it will be too late.

The longer you wait, the more you'll hurt your chances with your ex and risk losing him forever to another woman.

But if you start using these psychological tactics NOW...

you will beamazedhow fast does it starthe texts you, calls you and asks to pick up.

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At the end of the day, you have a choice:

You can let it slip away and never keep it again (even if it hurts a lot...)

Or you can touch his heart and his love for you, watch him run to you, hold him in your arms and never let go...

So start using these techniques now and see how quickly they come back to you.

FREE INSTRUCTIONS: Reconnect with Your Ex

Use these smart tricks to make up with your ex andleave you desperate for a second chance!

Get the guide now!